Jai Sri Srinathji sarkar Dasanudas,
Posanam Tadanugraha is the main point or basis of pushtimarg i.e.Something that is developed by the grace of Thakotrji Sri Srinathji. We cannot have opportunity to serve thakorji till we have his grace. In your case you are doing seva that means you have grace of thakorji and he wants you to do his seva. One more thing is that he loves your seva too that is why he has given you the thaught of learning about pushti Seva method. Before we go ahead with what you can do First it is important to know what is puhtimarg all about.
Jagadguru Bhagwan Sri Vallabhachary ji started of the cult of pushtimarg and Sri Damodar das ji Harsani was the first person to get inducted into pushtimarg. The philosophy is based on sudhadvait i.e. there is nothing other than Sri Krishna himself. All material and immaterial things are he himself yet he is different from all these and enjoyable of all these . In pushti sect there is no place to caste or creed once a person is graced he is of Krishna and each one of us try to establish a relation with
as per our bhava by the blessings of Sri Mahaprabhuji. Guru, Vaishnav and Sri Thakorji are one and a pushtimargi should see no difference in them. In pushti marg Mahaprabhuji descendants are considered swaroop shri of Valallabha and are the authority to inculcate a person to pushti sect . Pushti means grace and pushtimarg is marg of grace sometimes people confuse it that it is path to gain grace while actually it is a path of those who are graced. In pushtimarg greatest reward or fruit for a vaishnav is thakorji’s grace and nectar of this fruit is our Sri Thakorji’s seva. Different people have different Bhava some have Vatsalya bhava as you say you are into it, some have sakha bahava , some have servant bhava and with all different bhava we enjoy doing seva of our sri thakorji with grace of gurucharan and Sri Mahaprabhu bhagwan.
Getting into Pushtimarg.
It is said Anybody can be a pushtimargi but not everyone.
Simply because only those who are graced becomes pushti sevak. The way of adorning this great way of life has two parts:- 1) Naam sri and 2) Nivedan. In pushti marg first is samarpan that is the Deeksha Guru ( Vallabh Kul Balak sri) gives you the holy asthakshar mantra and you are required to chant it always. He second stage is Nivedan or Brahmsambandh.
What is Brahmsambandh?
Brahmsambandh as the name suggest is relation with Sri Thakorji. In it we do not take sanyas but we offer our everything to sri Thakorji and use all our resources for his seva . Tannujavittaja seva i.e. seva by money and body is offered to lord Sri thakorji. When we are not in Seva than we should remember his leela’s and should do our business and job also considering the seva of Thakorji. Seva is not hard. Just offer what we have to thakorji if we are living on water only than our thakorji is happy with that and if we are having chappan bhog that too we should offer sri thakorji. But a vaishnav should not eat asamparpit food that is something that is not offered to sri sri thakorji..
What can you do?
First thing take naam deeksha from Vallabhkul balak and express your desire for brahmsambandh. The uru charan will probably not give you brahmsambandh and naam at the same time so follow his instructions take naam sri and carry on your seva as you are doing now or as Guru Charan advice. On the specified time when you are called fpr Brahmsambandh take your swaroop sri with you to Gurucharan . Guruchra wll make the swaroop pusht. That is graced and than after brahmsambandh your seva procedure in detail will start as per our guruji’s advice.
General seva procedure of pushti sect:-
Wake up early moring after snan slowly enter Shri Thakorji’s haveli and clean up Singhasan and fill jariji (water pot covered with red cloth).
Now wake up Shri Thakorji ( process as specified by gurucharan)
Morning offerings are served and in the meantime when thkorji is having it make thakorji’s bed and make sringar samagri ready.
Bath Thakorji with luke warm water except in cold winters when it should be hot. ( Gurucharan may specify cold water in some areas also like summers )
Make sringar offer offerings as specified by gurucharan or as available during this time
Show mirror to thakorji
Offer rajbhog offering (atleast for 48 mins if possible)
Have Prasad and leave for Job/earning
Around 4 pm again knock and enter haveli offer fruits etc.
Evening offer light snacks
Shayan time offer evening meal and make thakorji sleep for night
DO keep some offerings for night with thakorji along with Bettle nut and paan if available in your area.
(THIS IS JUST AN OUTLINE OF SEVA PROCEDURE FOR DETAIL PROCEDURE YOU HAVE TO TAKE INSTRUCTIONS OF SRI GURUCHARAN.)
Bhakta jana ra ek sahara mahara e Srinathji,
Tan maan dhan sab hu se pyara mahane to Srinathji,
Our laadle laal is bemisaal he will show you a way on his own as his chhavi is madhurati madhur.
I once wrote a small poem (aarti) andsomehow I am feeling like sharing it with you:-
Aarti Kar navneetlal ki, Suchi Sunder Subh Nandbaal ki, aarti jar navneet lal ki,
Makkhan Chatur ,
Nij jan Chitth Choran ko aatur ,
Saras madhur chavhi lakh gopal ki
Aarti Kar navneet lal ki.
Anyways catch you latter someday.
Jai Sri Shrinathji sarkar
Pandit amit Pareek
Sri Gusai param dayalve namah, Jai sri SHRINATHJI sarkar,