jay shree krishna.

i'm 28 yrs old.just 2yrs ago i got married in one vaishnav fly.at my parents place we' ve pushtawela thakorji.so i used to do everyday seva & satsang.after marriage my in-laws also doing everyday same type of seva.but in different method.so i was in confusion which method i've to follow when i will do seva.there is so much of discrimination between my parents's seva & in-laws seva. which are as follows. kindly help to know what's a correct.

1.in my parents house we will do seva w/o eating food. if sometimes health is not proper then we used to drink regualr tea or coffee.nothing else. at my in-laws place 1st we completed heavy break fast then start seva.

2. in my parents house,when seva is going on that time didn't eat anything or try to stay in aprash. my in-laws place same thing going on but they can do lunch between seva & again went for aprash's bath & still if anything out side work is there then completed that work then finish seva.so between seva's time they are doing minimum 2-3 aparsh's bath.

3 is necessary that every day we've to do seva with oil free hair.i.e.shampoo's hair.

plz give me bit guidance that which is correct method or how to do this seva

jay shree krishna

leena