Dear Vaishnavcharan,

Jai Shri Krushna,

You have asked a good question. I will try to answer it with my limited intellect , senior members can shed more light upon it.

See first of all it is important for us to understand what is the ultimate aim of Brahmsambandh. Is it limited to asmarpit tyag, Pushti seva or anything other than this...

What i have understood from my limited intellect till date is that Acharya Bhagwan has made all the principles a mean to the end of Brahmsambandh. To clarify here im not disregarding the means for the end because right means can take us to right end.

The end result of brahmsambandh is continuous and uninterrupted anuraag in Shri Krushna . So all these means gives us continuous thaught of Shri Krushna and helps in developing anuraag. Now in your case what can be done:-

In ramamyan there is a reference to navdha bhakti prakriya what you can do in implementing same in accordance with the principal of pushtimarg:-

Ramayan says:-

Pratham Bhakti santan Kar sanga 

Try to be in touch with Sri Vallabhiya vaishnav charan and discuss naam roop leela of thakorji this wil enhance thaughts of thakorji in your heart.

Duji Rati mam katha prasanga:-

Read srimad bhagwat ponder over leela of sri Giridharan

For asamparpit tyaag take naam sri before having food or touch your mala to thali or take charnamurt before having food.

As far as as seva in this stage is concerned naam sravan , asthaksar matra jap and eagerness to offer seva is the greatest seva.

I hope other aishnavs can guide you much better.

Jai Sri Shrinathji sarkar

Regards,

Pt. Amit Pareek

Sri Gusai param dayalve namah, Jai sri SHRINATHJI sarkar,

Jai Shree Krishna

Viraha taap is very imoprtant to realise Shree Thakorji, through the path of grace. When you long for Shree Prabhus darshan, his seva, this in itself  is a very great boon. Keep this fire burning, it will lead you to the most apropriate understanding of the marg and ideal realisation of Shree Thakorji.

Shrimad Bhagwatji is the swaroopa of Shree Thakorji, and while one awaits for prabhus grace, reading of this devine form of Shree Thakorji and his leelas, will most definetly take one closer towards his goal.

Thre three most essential ingrediants that will definately ensure Shree Thakorjis grace upon one are............ 1. Smaran of Shree Prabhu through Ashtakshar Mantra.

2. Smaran of Shree Yamune through Shree Yamnashtakam

3. Smaran of Shree Mahaprabhuji through Shree Sarvottam stotra.

Jai Shri Krishna,

I think that one may recite Mahaprabhuji's Or Acharya's vachans & works. And ofcourse Ashtakar Mantras Jap is the best to precent one from Loukik Divergence.....One May learn the way of doing Seva so that when Thakorji does kripa and one gets seva one can do it to give more and more Anand to THAKORJI & no Shram to him.

This i as per my knowledge as I m also new o this Marg & dont know much about thi marg......

I regret if I said anything Wrong........

Jai Shri Krishna.

Jai Sri Krishna,

With the dark impacts of Kaliyuga becoming denser and denser. Its going to be extremely difficult to follow the siddhants...

The way out is...dont get distracted with what u can't do. Concentrate on doing what you can. And do that... happily.

If Seva is not possible...no problem.....do satsang. But then do hard satsang.....real satsang.....Not just sitting in a group, looking at each others faces and reading 84-252 Vaishnav vaarta and Shikshapatra.

If Bhadwadiya vaishnavs are not available, sit alone and read the literature available.

(A tip ofor reading literature: Try to stick to the original granths and old publications.)

If even that is not possible for you, chant the Astakshar mantra. 

See....Mahaprabhuji has given solution to every question.

For Asamarpit tyaag: If you are not able to do seva and offer bhog physically to Thakorji,.........eat what you get. But eat it with a disliking....with a feeling that you are eating it, because you have to eat it. But keep stong and earnest desire burning in your heart to consume the samarpit.

Thakorji is "Nijjechhatah Karishyati" Everything that happens, happens according to His will. Also He is "Bhaktavatsal". He know what has to be done with His Bhaktas.

So stop thinking on things that you can't and start with what you can.

You take one step.......He will take ten

-Vallabhdas

Sri Vallabh, kab tum kahoge.....yeh jeev hamare?

Vallabhdas

JAY SHRI KRISHNA.

Vallabhdasji you have shown very practical approch in this fast changing life style.